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You're over 40. Your body has changed. Your energy has shifted. What used to create turn-on doesn't work the same way anymore. You've been together long enough that novelty is gone. Spontaneous passion feels like something that belongs to younger people. Here's what we've learned: sexual polarity doesn't decline with age. It declines with complacency. Your capacity for presence, connection, and erotic aliveness hasn't diminished — you've just stopped practicing. And the pract

You've discovered sacred sexuality — the teachings resonate, the practices make sense, you're ready to transform your intimacy. There's one problem: your partner isn't interested. Maybe they think it's "woo woo." Maybe they're exhausted and don't have bandwidth for one more thing. Maybe they're skeptical. Or maybe they don't see the problem — things are fine the way they are, why change? This is one of the most common challenges people bring to us. And the answer, while simpl

You've been together for years. You still love each other — you're best friends, great partners, maybe incredible parents. But the fire? The desire that used to consume you? It's gone. Or at best, it flickers weakly on anniversaries and vacations before dying out again. You've accepted the story everyone tells: passion fades in long-term relationships. You have to choose between companionship and eros. But you're here because you refuse to accept that. You want the intimacy y

Londin and I run our business together. We work side by side every day — co-creating content, coaching clients, managing a community, making financial decisions together. We've done this for years. And we still have fire. Not because working together is easy on a relationship. It isn't. Working together can kill your sex life faster than almost anything else — not because you stop loving each other, but because you spend eight to twelve hours a day in the same energy. Both ma

Someone broke the trust. Maybe it was an affair. Maybe it was emotional betrayal, lying, hiding. The wound is real, and talking about it hasn't been enough to heal it. You're trying to rebuild, but intimacy feels impossible. How do you open your heart to someone who hurt you? How do you trust your body's desire when your mind keeps replaying the betrayal? You're caught between two truths: you still love them, and you can't forget what they did.

You're running on empty. By the time you collapse into bed, you have nothing left — not for sex, not for real conversation, barely enough for sleep. Your partner is just as depleted. You look at each other and both know: there's no energy for this. So sex stops happening. Or when it does, it's quick and disconnected — just checking a box. You miss each other. You miss the fire. But you can't imagine where the energy for passion would come from. Here's what Londin and I have

Parenting doesn't kill desire. Staying in the same energy as your partner all day does. When you're co-parenting — coordinating schedules, negotiating bedtime, managing tantrums, dividing labor — you and your partner operate in resonance. Same mode. Same energy. Same functional teamwork. That resonance is necessary for running a household. But it's the opposite of what creates sexual charge. Polarity requires difference. One partner in Alpha — directive, grounded, penetrating

We're 15+ Years In. The Fire Is Still Here. Here's What Actually Works. The story everyone tells you: Passion fades. It's inevitable. After 10 or 15 or 20 years together, you choose companionship or eros. Deep intimacy or hot sex. Partnership or polarity. You can't have both. That story is a lie. Londin and I have been together over 15 years. We have a young daughter. We run our business together — side by side, every single day. We've faced bodies changing through pregnancy

Most people discover sacred sexuality alone. One partner reads a book, listens to a podcast, or finds a teacher — and suddenly has a new vocabulary and a new set of desires for the relationship. The other partner hasn't had that experience. They don't know what Alpha and Omega mean. They don't know why their partner suddenly wants to sit face-to-face and breathe before sex. A gap opens between what one person knows and what the other doesn't.

We are Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel Winters — a couple who has been together over 16 years, parents of a daughter, co-founders of Yoga of Intimacy, and practitioners of sacred sexuality every single day. We teach this work together because we live it together, and because learning polarity from a couple gives you something a solo teacher can't: both sides of the dynamic, modeled in real time. Here's how our teaching is structured and what working with us actually lo

Both sacred sexuality and traditional tantra treat the body as sacred and sexuality as a path to awakening. Both recognize that sexual energy, held consciously, can transform you. But the approaches differ in origin, language, time commitment, and who they're designed for. This page lays out the real differences — not to rank one above the other, but to help you choose the path that fits your life.

Most sacred sexuality teachings rest on psychology, energy work, or tantric cosmology. The work Londin and I teach rests on something deeper: a nondual understanding that Consciousness and Light are not two separate forces but one reality appearing as two. We call this Conscious-Light — and it's the philosophical ground that everything else in our teaching stands on.

For decades, teachings on sexual polarity have used "masculine" and "feminine" to describe the two energetic poles that create charge between partners. The model works — opposites attract, and the tension between directive and receptive energy is what generates fire. But the language carries baggage that the underlying physics does not. When you hear "masculine," you think: man, dominance, control, provider. When you hear "feminine," you think: woman, softness, yielding, nurt

Sacred sexuality is for couples who want deep intimacy AND erotic fire. Justin & Londin teach long-term partners, parents, and anyone ready to practice.

Sexual polarity requires one partner embodying Alpha — directive, grounded, penetrative presence — while the other embodies Omega — receptive, expressive, magnetic opening. The difference between these two orientations creates charge. That charge is the fire. The practice is simpler than most people expect. You choose who's leading and who's yielding. You drop into your bodies. And you use breath, voice, gaze, and touch to amplify the difference between you until the charge

Can You Practice Sacred Sexuality When You Have Children? Yes. Not in the way most teachings present it — but yes. Most sacred sexuality practices are designed for childless couples, retreat settings, or people with hours of uninterrupted time. Multi-hour tantric rituals. Elaborate setup. Perfect silence. Perfect conditions. If you're a parent, you read those instructions and think: This isn't for me. It is for you. You just need practices that work inside your actual life —

In this debut episode of Intimate Conversations, Justin and Londin explore the intersection of parenting and sex. They reflect on key decisions that have helped them keep intimacy alive while raising their daughter. From blending Alpha and Omega energies in parenting to cultivating devotion and presence in sex, they reveal how family life can deepen—rather than diminish—erotic connection.

Why Most Couples Lose Their Fire — and What's Actually Missing. Couples come to us after years of trying. They've done therapy. They've read the books. They've done the weekend retreat. And the fire is still gone — or flickering at best. What they're missing, almost every time, isn't more communication skills. It isn't deeper emotional processing. It is polarity — the living, embodied contrast between two people oriented in genuinely different directions. Most modern couples