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You've discovered sacred sexuality — the teachings resonate, the practices make sense, you're ready to transform your intimacy. There's one problem: your partner isn't interested. Maybe they think it's "woo woo." Maybe they're exhausted and don't have bandwidth for one more thing. Maybe they're skeptical. Or maybe they don't see the problem — things are fine the way they are, why change? This is one of the most common challenges people bring to us. And the answer, while simpl

Londin and I run our business together. We work side by side every day — co-creating content, coaching clients, managing a community, making financial decisions together. We've done this for years. And we still have fire. Not because working together is easy on a relationship. It isn't. Working together can kill your sex life faster than almost anything else — not because you stop loving each other, but because you spend eight to twelve hours a day in the same energy. Both ma

Someone broke the trust. Maybe it was an affair. Maybe it was emotional betrayal, lying, hiding. The wound is real, and talking about it hasn't been enough to heal it. You're trying to rebuild, but intimacy feels impossible. How do you open your heart to someone who hurt you? How do you trust your body's desire when your mind keeps replaying the betrayal? You're caught between two truths: you still love them, and you can't forget what they did.

You're running on empty. By the time you collapse into bed, you have nothing left — not for sex, not for real conversation, barely enough for sleep. Your partner is just as depleted. You look at each other and both know: there's no energy for this. So sex stops happening. Or when it does, it's quick and disconnected — just checking a box. You miss each other. You miss the fire. But you can't imagine where the energy for passion would come from. Here's what Londin and I have

Parenting doesn't kill desire. Staying in the same energy as your partner all day does. When you're co-parenting — coordinating schedules, negotiating bedtime, managing tantrums, dividing labor — you and your partner operate in resonance. Same mode. Same energy. Same functional teamwork. That resonance is necessary for running a household. But it's the opposite of what creates sexual charge. Polarity requires difference. One partner in Alpha — directive, grounded, penetrating

David Deida opened the door for an entire generation of men and couples to take sexual polarity seriously as a spiritual practice. His books — especially The Way of the Superior Man — brought the idea that masculine/feminine difference creates passion into mainstream conversation in a way no one had before. That contribution matters, and many of the people who find our work studied Deida first. What Londin and I offer is an evolution of that conversation — not a rejection of